{"id":241837,"date":"2022-03-02T11:33:59","date_gmt":"2022-03-02T11:33:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/war-has-shown-that-you-can-lose-everything-in-a-moment-anna-dubinkina-34-kyiv\/"},"modified":"2022-03-19T19:16:02","modified_gmt":"2022-03-19T19:16:02","slug":"war-has-shown-that-you-can-lose-everything-in-a-moment-anna-dubinkina-34-kyiv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/war-has-shown-that-you-can-lose-everything-in-a-moment-anna-dubinkina-34-kyiv\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201eTa wojna pokaza\u0142a, \u017ce w jednej chwili mo\u017cna straci\u0107 wszystko\u201d, Anna, 34 lata, Kijow"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anna Dubinkina ma 34 lata. Przed wojn\u0105 pracowa\u0142a jako dyrektorka popularnego lokalu w stolicy. Teraz zajmuje si\u0119 organizacj\u0105 pracy jednej z kuchni wolontaryjnych, korzystaj\u0105c z pomieszcze\u0144 restauracji w Kijowie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pracuj\u0105 z ni\u0105 tutaj nie zawodowi kucharze, ale s\u0105siedzi, kt\u00f3rzy zdecydowali si\u0119 do\u0142\u0105czy\u0107:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Napisa\u0142am po prostu na czacie dla mieszka\u0144c\u00f3w naszego bloku, gdzie zwykle rozwi\u0105zujemy codziennie problemy: mamy mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 otwarcia kuchni i gotowania dla wojska i lekarzy. Nie spodziewa\u0142am si\u0119, \u017ce b\u0119dzie a\u017c taki odzew. Okazuje si\u0119, \u017ce wiele os\u00f3b chce pom\u00f3c miastu, tylko po prostu nie wie jak. Szczerze m\u00f3wi\u0105c, przed wojn\u0105 nie mia\u0142am nawet poj\u0119cia jak wygl\u0105da wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 moich s\u0105siad\u00f3w, ale teraz po dw\u00f3ch dniach wszyscy si\u0119 zaprzyja\u017anili\u015bmy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d \u2013 m\u00f3wi Ania.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wspomina pierwsze chwile wojny: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Zupe\u0142nie jak u wszystkich. Nigdy w \u017cyciu nie wyobra\u017ca\u0142am sobie<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, \u017ce kiedy\u015b m\u00f3j m\u0105\u017c obudzi mnie w \u015brodku nocy i powie, \u017ce zacz\u0119\u0142a si\u0119 wojna<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ona i jej m\u0105\u017c nie zauwa\u017cyli co si\u0119 dzieje i nie wyjechali z Kijowa w pierwszych godzinach. A potem, kiedy ju\u017c rozwa\u017cyli <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">za<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> i <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">przeciw<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, postanowili zosta\u0107, poniewa\u017c maj\u0105 tu bliskich: siostr\u0119, kt\u00f3ra 10 dni temu urodzi\u0142a dziecko i 90-letni\u0105 babci\u0119.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201eNie ma nic bohaterskiego w tym, \u017ce postanowili\u015bmy zosta\u0107. Doskonale zdawali\u015bmy sobie spraw\u0119 z tego, \u017ce je\u015bli pojedziemy, to nie zostanie nikt kto b\u0119dzie opiekowa\u0107 si\u0119 naszymi bliskimi. I \u017ce dla nas brak mo\u017cliwo\u015bci bycia obok i udzielenia pomocy jest czym\u015b straszniejszym, ni\u017c zasypia\u0107 i budzi\u0107 si\u0119 przy d\u017awi\u0119kach wybuch\u00f3w i syren\u201d.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u00f3wi, \u017ce w tym momencie odczuwa g\u0142\u00f3wnie rozpacz i bezradno\u015b\u0107, ale wolontariat pomaga chocia\u017c troch\u0119 sobie z tym wszystkim poradzi\u0107.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ka\u017cdy dzie\u0144 jest <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dniem \u015bwistaka<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Ca\u0142a rodzina \u015bpi na korytarzu, wystawiaj\u0105c buty za drzwi, \u017ceby w miar\u0119 ataku jak najszybciej znale\u017a\u0107 si\u0119 na zewn\u0105trz. Budz\u0105 si\u0119, jedz\u0105, pracuj\u0105 w kuchni. B\u0119d\u0105c w domu wieczorem wy\u0142\u0105czaj\u0105 wszystkie \u015bwiat\u0142a i po raz pierwszy tego dnia czytaj\u0105 wiadomo\u015bci: ciesz\u0105 si\u0119 z ma\u0142ych zwyci\u0119stw, odczuwaj\u0105 dum\u0119 z wojska. Modl\u0105 si\u0119.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ania marzy, \u017ce b\u0119dzie po wojnie odrobin\u0119 mniej pracowa\u0107 i sp\u0119dza\u0107 wi\u0119cej czasu z bliskimi. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ta wojna pokaza\u0142a, \u017ce w jednej chwili mo\u017cna straci\u0107 wszystko. Okaza\u0142o si\u0119, \u017ce wcze\u015bniej by\u0142o tyle bezcennych rzeczy\u00a0 \u2013 mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 przytulenia bliskich w ka\u017cdej chwili, du\u017co \u015bwiat\u0142a i rado\u015bci. Ale ja ca\u0142y czas by\u0142am czym\u015b zaj\u0119ta, rozwi\u0105zywa\u0142am jakie\u015b tam problemy w pracy i nawet nie zdawa\u0142em sobie sprawy, ile szcz\u0119\u015bcia jest w ka\u017cdej z tych chwil, kiedy nie ma wojny.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Anna Dubinkina ma 34 lata. Przed wojn\u0105 pracowa\u0142a jako dyrektorka popularnego lokalu w stolicy. Teraz zajmuje si\u0119 organizacj\u0105 pracy jednej z kuchni wolontaryjnych, korzystaj\u0105c z pomieszcze\u0144 restauracji w Kijowie. Pracuj\u0105 z ni\u0105 tutaj nie zawodowi kucharze, ale s\u0105siedzi, kt\u00f3rzy zdecydowali si\u0119 do\u0142\u0105czy\u0107: \u201eNapisa\u0142am po prostu na czacie dla mieszka\u0144c\u00f3w naszego bloku, gdzie zwykle rozwi\u0105zujemy [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":239467,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anya is 34 years old. Before the war, she was a manager of a popular restaurant in Kyiv. Now she organizes work in volunteer kitchens using the facilities of a restaurant.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No professional chefs work next to her, but neighbors who have decided to help.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018I have just texted in the chat of our house, where we usually solve household issues: we can open the kitchen and cook food for the military and hospitals. I did not expect so many people to answer the call. It turns out that a lot of people want to help the city; they just don\u2019t know how to. To be honest, before the war I did not even recognize most of my neighbors, and in the last two days we all became friends,\u2019 says Anya.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She recalls the first moments of the war: \u2018I was like everyone else. I never imagined in my life that one day someone would wake me up in the middle of the night and say that the war had started.\u2019<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She and her husband had not found their bearings and had not left Kyiv in the first few hours. And then, after they weighed the pros and cons, they decided to stay for the closest people that were there: a sister who gave birth to a child 10 days ago and an old grandmother who is 90 years old.<\/span>\r\n<blockquote><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018There is nothing heroic in our decision to stay. We just knew perfectly well that if we leave, no one will take care of our relatives. And it's worse for us not to be with them, not to be able to help than to wake up and fall asleep to the sounds of explosions and sirens.\u2019<\/span><\/blockquote>\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anya says that now she feels mostly desperate and helpless but volunteering helps to cope with it, at least a bit.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every day is like a \u2018marmot day\u2019. The whole family sleeps in the hallway, putting their shoes outside the door to run out faster in case of a strike. They wake up, eat, and work in the kitchen. In the evening, at home, they turn all the lights off, and for the first time in a day, they read the news rejoicing in small victories and feeling proud of the army. They pray.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After the war, Anya dreams of working a little less and spending more time with her family: \u2018This war has shown that you can lose everything in a moment. It turned out that before there were so many priceless things: the opportunity to hug those who you love at any time, there was so much light and joy. But I was always worried about some work issues and didn't even realize how much happiness there is in every moment when there is no war. \u2019<\/span>","_et_gb_content_width":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[160,67],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241837"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=241837"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241837\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":241838,"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241837\/revisions\/241838"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/239467"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=241837"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=241837"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.warstoriesukraine.com\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=241837"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}